Technology Tips for Parents with Teens

Tony Costa, Vice-Principal, Student Support and Wellbeing
Have you ever tried to get your child’s attention, when they’re scrolling through an endless stream of Instagram posts, Snapchat messages or TikTok videos? This can sometimes be easier said than done. 

Social media consumption has been highlighted as a significant factor impacting young people’s health. Comparison culture, fewer face to face interactions, hours of screen time, less physical activity, lowering attention spans, AI companionship, interactions with unknown people in the virtual world, the list goes on! Experts, like Jonathan Haidt (author of “The Anxious Generation”), have shown the correlation between how the creation of the smart phone, the forward-facing camera and social media platforms have significantly impacted the mental health of young people since approximately 2010. Haidt’s research explores how the technology uses a number of mechanisms to hook young people into various online arenas. He argues that these technologies are intentionally addictive, and young people's brains are being rewired in specific ways that are contrary to the way that humans have evolved for thousands of years, making us less healthy beings.

But what can we do about it? Technology is everywhere, integrated into almost every aspect of daily work, play and communication. Where is the help?

At Greenwood, we have been working to educate students to think critically about what is being consumed, participated in and engaged with online. This education is provided through a cross section of curriculum, including English, Media Arts, History and HPE courses. Additionally Greenwood has had guest speakers like Chris Vollum discuss positive Digital Citizenship, Jake Ernst discuss the importance of reducing screen time/social media consumption, and Jonathan Duviner discuss cyber security with students. 

Watch for upcoming sessions for parents/guardians and students on teens and social media later in the year. These sessions will be hosted by ConnectEd who Greenwood is currently partnering with and has recently provided a session for staff on supporting teens to develop social media literacy. 

Young people may need assistance when trying to reduce their use of these technologies that have become so prevalent in our lives. If you as a parent/guardian are interested in reducing the use of, or completely blocking designated apps, websites, content and screen time, below are some technological supports that adults can use to help set social media boundaries for young people. 

We have heard from some families that this type of resource would be helpful, so are sharing here some options collated by Jonathan Tepper, Greenwood’s Executive Director of Information Technology and Charles Jennings, Coordinator of Learning Technology. Please note that Greenwood does not specifically endorse any of these resources.

  • Parental Controls (iPhone Users managed through the “screen time” feature)
    • Time Management
      • Downtime: Blocks most app access during scheduled hours.
      • App Limits: Sets daily limits for specific apps or app categories.
    • Content Restrictions 
      • Web Filtering: Restricts access to adult content or allows only specific websites.
      • Media Filtering: Limits movies, music, and apps based on age ratings (e.g., G, PG) and explicit content.
    • Purchases & Downloads 
      • iTunes & App Store: Controls the ability to install, delete, or make in-app purchases.
      • Ask to Buy: Requires parental approval for all new downloads and purchases.
    • Communication Controls
      • Communication Limits: Restricts contacts for Phone, FaceTime, and Messages during Screen Time or Downtime.
      • Communication Safety: Alerts the child about photos containing nudity in Messages (with parental notification).
    • Privacy & Settings
      • Content & Privacy Restrictions: Prevents children from changing critical device settings (like Location Services, account changes, or cellular data settings).
    • Comprehensive Controls: Allows parents to manage screen time, create custom usage schedules, block apps and websites, and pause the internet across multiple device types (Android, iOS, computers, and specialized Bark hardware).
    • Advanced Content Monitoring: Uses AI to scan content (texts, emails, 30+ social media apps, web activity, images, and videos) for serious issues like cyberbullying, self-harm, and predatory behavior, sending parents alerts only when a potential threat is detected.
    • Cross-Platform Monitoring: Unlike Family Link, Bark offers tools to monitor iOS devices for texts, photos, and social media content (requires a connected computer or the Bark Home device for full functionality).
 
    • Real-time location sharing and tracking on a map (The "Circle")
    • Place Alerts (automatic notifications when members arrive at or leave set locations)
    • Location History (viewing where Circle members have been for a set number of days)
    • Crash Detection and Emergency Dispatch (automatically detects a severe car crash and dispatches emergency services)
    • Driving Safety Features (reports on driving habits like top speed, phone usage while driving, etc.)
    • SOS Alert/Help Alert (a panic button to send a distress signal to Circle members and contact emergency services)
    • This resource does not offer app/website filtering or blocking

If your family has been looking for ways to decrease, deactivate, delete, downgrade or depart from social media or app consumption, we hope that the above platforms may offer a starting point for supporting the wellbeing of the young people in the Greenwood community.
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