T.H.I.N.K. Before Speaking

When I posed these questions to students and staff at Assembly this week, I looked out at the sea of people, some shaking their heads, others looking a bit confused. Because, of course we know it’s the times that we speak before we think or say something hurtful, unkind, uninformed that we may regret what we’ve said. 

I then took a moment to talk about the T.H.I.N.K Principle. As I spoke to the school community, I realised it’s a great reminder for all of us, students and adults alike, for our school, work and personal lives. 

Before we speak, T.H.I.N.K reminds us to stop and consider “Is what I’m about to say True, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary and Kind?”

True: Before sharing information or opinions, ensure what you're saying is factually accurate and supported by reliable sources. Avoid spreading misinformation or rumours.

Helpful: Consider whether your contribution adds value to the discussion and helps others understand the topic better. Offer constructive insights, share relevant resources, or ask clarifying questions to promote understanding.

Inspiring: Aim to inspire positive engagement and constructive dialogue. Instead of resorting to negativity or cynicism, focus on inspiring others to take action or consider new perspectives on an issue.

Necessary: Evaluate whether your comment is necessary to contribute to the conversation. Avoid unnecessary repetition, off-topic remarks, or responses that don't add substance to the discussion.

Kind: Communicate with empathy and respect towards others, even if you disagree with their viewpoints. Choose your words carefully to avoid causing hurt or offence or escalating conflict. 

It could be related to something small – like feedback you plan to give a friend – or significant discussions like world events. It is relevant in our face-to-face conversations and also in our online interactions.

By following the T.H.I.N.K. principle, we can promote more respectful and productive communication. T.H.I.N.K. requires some self control. It can be difficult to apply in emotional situations. Sometimes it may not be clear what is "necessary" or "inspiring” or even what is true. 

Despite it being difficult, I invite us all to apply the T.H.I.N.K. principle and pause the next time we are about to make that quick unkind comment or share a hurtful or untrue meme.

Let’s do this to help Greenwood and our community be a place that welcomes and values multiple perspectives, a place where everyone feels safe and heard and respected. 

On another note - spring is underway in full force at Greenwood, with the Heads of Student Leadership voting taking place Friday. Candidates participated in a Q & A at Assembly and continued their campaigns this week. I admire them for striving for these important positions and having the courage to put themselves out there. To the candidates: I hope that considering the T.H.I.N.K. principle provides some inspiration for your leadership style and conversations in the future. I wish you all the best of luck.